(NOVEMBER 21 – DECEMBER 21)
It’s the sleep week! Todd started his 4th month with an epic 9.25 hour sleep on November 21st to 22nd. Then, on November 28th to 29th, he set another record! I actually had to wake him up at the 9.75 hour mark because we had leave the house. I didn’t get to find out how long he would’ve gone. In the same week, he also had an 8.25 hour sleep, an 8 hour sleep and a 7.75 hour sleep. Yay, Todd!
On November 22nd, we took Todd to our condo in Wenatchee for the first time. That afternoon, we took him to the Mission Ridge Ski & Board Resort for the first time. We had a couple beers in the Hampton Lodge to kick off the season.
At the condo, Todd slept in the Pack ‘n Play in my bedroom. It was rough that night because he woke up at 2 AM to eat and then he cried and cried before he went back to sleep at 3:15 AM. Fortunately, this crying-in-the-middle-of-the-night-episode was just a “one-time thing.”
On November 23rd, we skied for the first time this season. Eric and I took turns in the lodge. We love Mission Ridge for many reasons, but especially because there are so many people that we see and ski with year after year.
I’d been sick with a cold since November 18th. On November 24th, it seemed like Todd was getting his first cold. He had an obvious runny nose and more frequent sneezing. The next day he was back to “normal.” Odd! Meanwhile, my cold was awful and lasted >2 weeks!
We drove to Bend, OR on November 27th for Todd’s first Thanksgiving and second trip to Bend.
- 1st 9.25 hour sleep (11/21 to 11/22)
- 1st visit to condo (11/22)
- 1st visit to ski area (Mission Ridge – 11/22)
- 1st 9.75 hour sleep (11/28 to 11/29)
On November 28th, we took Todd to the Juniper Swim and Fitness Center for his first pool experience. He’s always been content in his bath, and he reacted similarly in the warm children’s pool. We all had a blast!
On November 29th, Todd visited Santa for the first time. He was calm in Santa’s lap and just checked out everything around him. Ashley and Eli have been going to see this same Santa since they were tiny.
Todd seemed to discover his feet (visually) for the first time when my mom (“grandma”) was playing with him. He also started playing with a new toy during our visit.
Back home again, Todd rolled from back to sidelying a few times on December 1st. He was getting sooo close to rolling fully from back to belly.
This was the week that I started doing Elimination Communication (EC) with Todd, with consistency. See my last post for all the poop! Baby Todd’s First Week of Potty “Training (3.5 months)
- 1st time in a pool (Bend, OR – 11/28)
- 1st Santa visit (Bend, OR – 11/29)
- 1st poop and pee in sink (12/1)
- Visitors at home: Eric’s parents (12/2)
- 1st pee and poop in toilet (12/3)
- rolling from back to side
- tries to “pick” candy cane off his pants
We spent the weekend in Wenatchee and we skied both days. On December 5th, Todd possibly said the word “hi” to Eric. On December 7th, I noticed that Todd was touching his left foot (with his left hand) for the first time, while on the changing table.
On December 8th, Todd was doing a lot of rolling from back-to-sidelying to attend to his toys. During tummy time, he was lifting his head to vertical and propping himself up with his forearms.
He started grabbing his left foot and toes regularly. It makes it much more difficult to fasten his diaper because he wants to keep his legs drawn up.
On December 9th, Todd had a major breakthrough!! He rolled fully from back-to-belly (toward the right) for the first time. I was too slow to catch it on video. After Eric got home, Todd graciously repeated the feat another 2 times, and it was funny watching him get hung up on a toy that I named “Mr Pippins.”
And get this– Not only did Todd roll from back-to-belly for the first time, but he also rolled from belly-to-back for the first time that same day (and Eric was home to see it!) I wonder how common that is?
On December 10th, Todd repeated his back-to-belly (toward the right) and belly-to-back rolling. It took Todd a lot of time and effort to achieve his belly-to-back rolls. One time, though, he did it quickly and by accident. He was on his belly, up on his forearms with his head vertical at the time. He must have turned his head and somehow that “flipped” him over. It happened super fast! He had a very surprised look on his face and I laughed!
After Eric got home from work on December 10th, Todd managed to roll from back-to-belly toward the left for the first time. From the 11th onward, Todd readily rolled from back-to-belly toward both sides. He did not repeat the belly-to-back rolling for another week, though.
- 1st pee in condo toilet (12/5)
- Possibly said “hi” (12/5)
- 1st time “sledding” (in car seat at Mission Ridge – 12/6)
- 1st poop in condo toilet (12/6)
- 1st time touching foot (12/7)
- 1st pee in public restroom toilet (12/7)
- 1st time rolling from back-to-belly, toward the right (12/9)
- 1st time rolling from belly-to-back, over the left shoulder (12/9)
- 1st time rolling from back-to-belly, toward the left (12/10)
- new sound, “gee”
- holds head up high and supports himself with forearms on tummy
- looking at his groin in the mirror without a diaper on
- sitting with assist from boppy pillow
On December 13th, we took Todd to the Lynnwood Pool, for his 2nd pool experience. There, they have a session called, “Beach Swim.” We used the shallow pool/play area and family hot tub. Todd is very content in the water. He doesn’t seem to mind when we float him on his back with his head in the water. He loves to be zoomed around on his belly.
After the swim, we went to Babies R Us to buy a Graco Contour Potty Ring ($11.99). This allows Todd to face the “normal” way while sitting on the toilet, and it makes it easier for me to hold him there. At home, Todd demonstrated that he could “pee pee” and “poo poo” on the new seat.
On December 14th, we set our hot tub to 98 degrees and we enjoyed a family soak. It was the first of a ~twice weekly routine. Todd is a water baby!
On December 16th and 17th, Todd finally repeated his belly-to-back roll. (He hadn’t done it since the 10th.) It’s still a struggle for him. He can do it with or without a diaper on, but it’s easier without, since he can draw his knees way up underneath him.
- 2nd pool swim (Lynnwood, WA – 12/13)
- 1st time using new potty seat (12/13)
- Eric’s 6 week post-op date (Dr. Snip). He still has live “swimmers” (12/13)
- 1st time in our hot tub (12/14)
- Visitors at home: Eric’s parents (12/17)
- when sitting, uses arms more to prevent falling forward
- “couch standing” with supervision
- haven’t noticed him playing with his left foot anymore
- Eric plays the keyboard and sings to Todd
WEEK 18 (Partial Week)
On December 19th, we drove to our condo late in the evening (a 2.5 hour drive). Todd had a hard time settling for bed so he ended up sleeping in his car seat for 5 hours that (Friday) night.
I’m finding that I really miss not having my rocker/glider chair when we’re away from home. Even if Todd is super alert and physically “hyper” before bed at home, once I start rocking and feeding him in the chair, he turns to putty in my arms. Away from home, it’s not as easy to settle him without that chair.
Todd rolled from belly-to-back over his right shoulder for the first time on the morning of December 20th. (Before that, he could only roll belly-to-back over his left shoulder.)
We skied on the 20th and poor Todd didn’t nap for very long that day. Although he was clearly tired, he had another rough time getting to bed that (Saturday) night. He was eventually able to fall asleep on my bed, with me. I moved him to his Pack ‘n Play bed a couple hours later. I feel bad that our weekend ski routine seems to disrupt his smooth weekday sleep “schedule” at home.
As of now…
During weekdays at home, Todd typically gets a really long nap (~2.5 to 3 hours) in his swing every morning, and then a somewhat shorter nap (~1.5 to 2.5 hours) in his swing every afternoon. Alternatively, he may sleep for one of his naps in his car seat, when I take him in the car for shopping or outside in the stroller for a walk. He typically goes to bed very easily at home, at about 8:00-8:45 PM. He sleeps until about 4 or 5 AM.
Todd’s toilet use continues. He pees and poops every day while sitting with support on his potty seat on the toilet. Since December 3rd, only 3 small nuggets of poop didn’t make it into the toilet (on 12/7, 12/17, and 12/20). Eric and I typically try to sit him on the toilet upon waking from nighttime sleep, upon waking from naps, after eating (a few times), and other times when awake.
He’ll usually pee on the toilet about 5-9 times per day. The most he’s done in one day was 15 pees on the toilet (on 12/19). I keep track of dry diapers and I get excited when he has them! I still wash a large load of cloth diapers every other day, but the diapers I do wash are not saturated. Sometimes I can skip the pre-rinse cycle.
FOURTH MONTH WRAP-UP
Other things to remember about Todd’s fourth month:
- More spitting up
- Grasps and manipulates toys. Doesn’t drop them as much.
- Everything goes into his mouth. Lots of drool. Using bibs now.
- Still has an eczema rash on his head and bilateral limbs (elbows, knees)
- Makes “exclamation” sounds on changing table
- Prefers to play with toys in sitting rather than lying down
- Eric sings and plays music to Todd
- Getting close to being able to sit unsupported
- Still wears some 3-month size clothes, but fits best in the 6-month size